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“Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends whom we choose.” — Tehyi Hsieh
Some friendships come and go, while other friendships come and grow. Three of my close friends and I have been blessed with a growing friendship that has lasted more than 30 years.
Laura, Carolyn, Katy and I started out as neighbors. We were all fortunate to be stay-at-home moms back then, which made it possible for us to get together often. Our relationship became more than just “borrowing a cup of sugar.” Together, we took our children to movies, parks, the shopping mall, miniature golf courses and a multitude of other fun places, and we took turns as hostess of backyard picnics and summer Bible clubs.
We became active in our local Christian Women’s Club, where we were able to spend time together without our children, and the meetings drew us even closer. We prayed for each other, our families and our community on a regular basis, and we saw amazing things happen.
We’ve been through good times and bad times, sharing hugs, tears and words of encouragement. Our relationship has always been positive and uplifting; there has never been any bitterness, envy or gossip among us.
Over the years, our lives have undergone many changes, but our friendship has remained strong. Laura went to nursing school and became a licensed practical nurse. Later, she moved out of the neighborhood. Carolyn furthered her education and is a special education teacher, and she, too, moved. Katy went to college, graduating with a degree in accounting, and she also moved. I remain in the old neighborhood, doing a lot of writing and traveling extensively with my husband.
Fortunately, my friends didn’t move far, and although our lives have taken different paths, and we find ourselves busier than ever, we still get together at least four times a year – to celebrate our birthdays and our friendship. Sometimes we even manage to squeeze in a special holiday gathering. We enjoy a meal together, birthday gifts and sharing the latest news about ourselves and our families.
These three beautiful women become more dear to me with each passing year. I know if I should ever have an urgent need, they will be there to help me. We are all truly friends forever.
